“ Dearest Laurie and Dean, Your hearts are crushed and I can only imagine losing one of my children. I love you and your family very much. I'm so sorry. Please know in my heart I grieve for y'all but also for the loss of my cousin. I remember the night he was born and how Dean liked the name Grant that was one of our cousins husbands name. My arms are around y'all and I weep with y'all. Our grand Creator will be with you. Pray as you can. Revelations 3: 3&4 are verses that help me during loss. I know it will y'all too. ”