“ I am so sorry for your loss. You don’t know me, but I was one of Grant’s roommates in Bellevue before he left back to Mississippi. Him and I were planning to be roommates again in Portland, OR just last month. I’m going to miss him a lot. He was one of my favorite people, and I speak well of him often when I tell stories to my friends and family of times up in Washington. I’m so sorry. ”